如何讓家人同意換缸? - 魚
By Brianna
at 2011-05-12T20:55
at 2011-05-12T20:55
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話說自從我的第一個四尺缸已經有快十年的歷史,
這是我當初第一次領薪水買的,沒記錯的話,大概兩千多元.
因為歷史悠久,缸面有很多刮痕,也顯得老舊了.
我是想訂做一個比較低一點的四尺缸,
這樣在整理或洗缸的時候也比較方便些.
無奈,
這個方案遭到我爸的反對.
他老人家的理由是缸子又沒壞,幹麻買新的?浪費錢.
我的想法則是,換新的缸子也不過幾千元而已,
而且又有美觀好整理的極大效益.
結果,
我爸就和我為了這個問題爭執不下,吵了好幾年!
搞到雙方的氣氛很糟.
真搞不懂他的心理是怎樣想?
也不過幾千塊的錢.
父子有必要這樣吵好幾年嗎?
一度我心灰意冷,很想放棄..曾經清空過,想整組送給親戚.
親戚也答應收留,後來幸好不了了之...我又開始設缸種草.
但真的好想買新的缸子!!
吵到最後,我連我妹都拖下水了.
我對我爸說,我妹她每年都花好幾萬去日本玩.
我都沒出過國玩,
不過五六年了,想花幾千塊換個缸子,不行嗎?
結果,我爸說我妹是出國去玩,花的錢有意義.我的缸子明明就好好的,幹嘛換新?
我說,都是一樣花自己的錢,為何我妹每年(注意是每年!!)花好幾萬去日本玩就可以?
我不過十年一次花幾千塊換個新缸就不行?
妹妹她去日本玩是她的休閒娛樂,
我喜歡養魚,對我來說,是得到比去日本玩還滿足的娛樂,不行嗎?
更何況只有幾千元,遠比去日本玩便宜太多太多了!!
為何你要雙重標準?
我不過花小錢買新魚缸就是浪費,我妹每年去日本玩就很有意義,不是浪費!
最後,
我問我爸,那我以後每年都去日本玩嗎?
結果,我爸回答說,那怎麼可以這樣比.
反正,
他的觀念裡,每年花幾萬元去世界各地走走很有意義(他超愛看大陸尋奇),
十年才一次,花幾千元換新魚缸就是罪大惡極!
會有這麼多氣的原因在:
從我有工作以來,
陸陸續續已經幫家裡還了三百多萬的債務!!
每次我加班到半夜回家,看到他在客廳還沒睡,我就知道有事.
可能就會聽到:"阿X啊,你那邊有沒有錢?明天去銀行領50萬(有時是30萬)出來,好不好?"
我也都是二花不說,隔天就領錢給他!
我知道我爸他也很悲哀!
二十年前,家裡有人賭博,家產賠光,欠了好幾百萬...都是靠親戚幫忙還的.
現在親戚,有的退休,兒子女兒結婚,陸陸續續想要回我們家欠了幾十年的錢...
但我爸的人生悲哀歸悲哀,
總不能拖我下水吧!!
我覺得我也夠可憐了!
畢業後,就從事操到爆肝的電子產業.
眼看著同事們一個一個買房買車交女友...
而我卻一無所有...把賺到的幾百萬都拿去幫家裡還債了!!
我的人生也真夠可悲!!
犧牲了青春和健康,被電子產業搞壞了身體,
現在只能轉職當個小小沒前途的公務人員.
難道我爸就不能讓我過自己想要的人生嗎?不能有自己的興趣嗎?
上次和他爭執的時候,
我差點脫口而出:
"難道你就不能看在我幫家裡還了三百萬的份上,讓我買個小小的魚缸?"
但我始終沒說出口,
因為這句話殺傷力太大,我無法預測後果會如何?
我沒有勇氣去測試這句話的威力.
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這是我當初第一次領薪水買的,沒記錯的話,大概兩千多元.
因為歷史悠久,缸面有很多刮痕,也顯得老舊了.
我是想訂做一個比較低一點的四尺缸,
這樣在整理或洗缸的時候也比較方便些.
無奈,
這個方案遭到我爸的反對.
他老人家的理由是缸子又沒壞,幹麻買新的?浪費錢.
我的想法則是,換新的缸子也不過幾千元而已,
而且又有美觀好整理的極大效益.
結果,
我爸就和我為了這個問題爭執不下,吵了好幾年!
搞到雙方的氣氛很糟.
真搞不懂他的心理是怎樣想?
也不過幾千塊的錢.
父子有必要這樣吵好幾年嗎?
一度我心灰意冷,很想放棄..曾經清空過,想整組送給親戚.
親戚也答應收留,後來幸好不了了之...我又開始設缸種草.
但真的好想買新的缸子!!
吵到最後,我連我妹都拖下水了.
我對我爸說,我妹她每年都花好幾萬去日本玩.
我都沒出過國玩,
不過五六年了,想花幾千塊換個缸子,不行嗎?
結果,我爸說我妹是出國去玩,花的錢有意義.我的缸子明明就好好的,幹嘛換新?
我說,都是一樣花自己的錢,為何我妹每年(注意是每年!!)花好幾萬去日本玩就可以?
我不過十年一次花幾千塊換個新缸就不行?
妹妹她去日本玩是她的休閒娛樂,
我喜歡養魚,對我來說,是得到比去日本玩還滿足的娛樂,不行嗎?
更何況只有幾千元,遠比去日本玩便宜太多太多了!!
為何你要雙重標準?
我不過花小錢買新魚缸就是浪費,我妹每年去日本玩就很有意義,不是浪費!
最後,
我問我爸,那我以後每年都去日本玩嗎?
結果,我爸回答說,那怎麼可以這樣比.
反正,
他的觀念裡,每年花幾萬元去世界各地走走很有意義(他超愛看大陸尋奇),
十年才一次,花幾千元換新魚缸就是罪大惡極!
會有這麼多氣的原因在:
從我有工作以來,
陸陸續續已經幫家裡還了三百多萬的債務!!
每次我加班到半夜回家,看到他在客廳還沒睡,我就知道有事.
可能就會聽到:"阿X啊,你那邊有沒有錢?明天去銀行領50萬(有時是30萬)出來,好不好?"
我也都是二花不說,隔天就領錢給他!
我知道我爸他也很悲哀!
二十年前,家裡有人賭博,家產賠光,欠了好幾百萬...都是靠親戚幫忙還的.
現在親戚,有的退休,兒子女兒結婚,陸陸續續想要回我們家欠了幾十年的錢...
但我爸的人生悲哀歸悲哀,
總不能拖我下水吧!!
我覺得我也夠可憐了!
畢業後,就從事操到爆肝的電子產業.
眼看著同事們一個一個買房買車交女友...
而我卻一無所有...把賺到的幾百萬都拿去幫家裡還債了!!
我的人生也真夠可悲!!
犧牲了青春和健康,被電子產業搞壞了身體,
現在只能轉職當個小小沒前途的公務人員.
難道我爸就不能讓我過自己想要的人生嗎?不能有自己的興趣嗎?
上次和他爭執的時候,
我差點脫口而出:
"難道你就不能看在我幫家裡還了三百萬的份上,讓我買個小小的魚缸?"
但我始終沒說出口,
因為這句話殺傷力太大,我無法預測後果會如何?
我沒有勇氣去測試這句話的威力.
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