幾年前遇到的中途心得 - 貓
By Jake
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at 2021-09-30T21:24
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回覆這篇算是逆風
但是我還是有些想法要說
看大家一面倒的批評中途,這不太公平
我自己領養過貓,也送養過貓
第一次領養時被打槍
原因是我是新手,且家裡沒有舊貓
對方覺得無法幫助要送養的幼貓社會化
這個理由我接受,也沒有任何意見
我從沒跟任何抱怨過,相信對方有他的考量
運氣很好的第二次領養就成功
後來也因為某些意外救援了浪貓
當過兩次送養人,有興趣可去翻我以前文章
我雖送養過,但我不是專業中途
當然我以下發言不代表所有中途立場
—————————
常常批評送養人很刁難、毛很多的
其實自己可以做個實驗
你找幾張可愛的貓照片,上網發文要送養
開始陸陸續續奇怪的人就來了
我當初在批踢踢和臉書都發過送養文
前後一共約30人聯繫過
「我家小孩吵著要養貓,就先給我養看看吧」
「我想養貓,但是我不希望我家被弄髒」
「他懂得用貓砂嗎,我不希望貓砂沾到地板」
「貓乖不乖?會打破杯子嗎?會咬線嗎?」
「舊貓走失了,想再領養一隻來替補」
「我沒經驗,先讓我試,不適合我再還給你」
「我套房很小,很忙常不在,但我想試試看」
「剛開店,想訓練一隻公關貓來招攬生意」
「想在工寮養一隻,給附近的浪浪找玩伴」
諸如上述的傻眼的問題每天都依依回答
送養時不是只有我問問題
也更希望對方多問我一些問題,好彼此了解
我也不會公開設定什麼養貓條件
因為在我想法是,先談過再來決定是否要送出
但更多的領養人給人的態度是:
我沒什麼可給你問的,也沒有問題想問你
要送養就趕快把貓交出來!少囉嗦!
這種完全不想溝通就想直接要求交貓的
大概佔了來訊者的一半
(批踢踢來訊的都很有禮貌,但臉書上來訊者一堆牛鬼蛇神,有半夜打來說要來接貓走的
)
不想給問太多可以理解
租屋還是自宅?大樓、透天、還是套房?
獨居還是共住?是否有舊貓?
上述這些基本的問題都不給問的也不少
被拒絕而灰心的不是只有領養方而已
而且送養方也是常常被拒絕的
當遇到很理想的詢問者,很希望能送給對方
對方考慮後幾天,又拒絕也是常有的事情
這些也是默默吞下來繼續找
畢竟送貓也是要雙方心肝情願才行
有人說中途會利用領養人的愛心來賺錢
我只覺得,這個說法真是頭殼壞去
照顧貓、看獸醫、到處發文、接洽來訊者
這些都非常勞心勞力、又花時間
如果付出這些,只是為了騙你幾千萬把元
我倒覺得去超商打工還更輕鬆咧
送養上隻貓時
也曾有過三、四個人主動私訊我
希望能匯些錢給我來幫助那隻貓咪
我也是都拒絕了
我甚至都跟來訊有意願領養的人說
如果願意收養,前期的醫療或飲食花費
我可以一起負擔,如有困難我也都可以幫忙
後來貓咪好不容易真的送出了
原本我自己也是很反對協議書的人
但基於曾有過負面經驗,還是決定要有個依據
我立出的協議書如下
只有五條規則,對方也是很爽快的就簽了
https://i.imgur.com/WCRRLsh.jpg
我後來自己認識的幾個有兼做中途的朋友
基本上作法也都是和我一樣
所以對於批踢踢現在把中途都說成斂財的瘋子
我覺得這說法不是很公平
我想建議有心要認養貓狗的朋友
可以多看看貓板或社團
很多的送養者,都是意外的撈到浪貓
因無法照料才出來發文尋求認養的
盡量跟這種送養人領養,這種規矩會比較少
對方通常只是想盡快送貓而已
至於那隻貓口眾多,專門在做中途的愛媽
也是大家最容易遇到爭議的類型
這種規矩很多,能否接受看個人
我自己曾有認識專業愛媽中途,毛的確比較多
但沒必要把所有送養人都當成混蛋帶風向
畢竟上述這種人不可能壟斷全部的領養管道
最後我比較有疑問的是
上篇的原作者自述
因為被中途拒絕過
所以買了英短和有基因缺陷爭議的曼赤肯
我無法理解兩者的關聯在哪裡
為何被中途拒絕過,就要去買品種貓?
這個邏輯到底是?
如果只是想要養品種貓,建議就大方承認
想買品種貓是個人的自由,這沒什麼
但沒必要歸咎都是因為中途
導致逼你不得不去買貓
真的沒有必要…
--
但是我還是有些想法要說
看大家一面倒的批評中途,這不太公平
我自己領養過貓,也送養過貓
第一次領養時被打槍
原因是我是新手,且家裡沒有舊貓
對方覺得無法幫助要送養的幼貓社會化
這個理由我接受,也沒有任何意見
我從沒跟任何抱怨過,相信對方有他的考量
運氣很好的第二次領養就成功
後來也因為某些意外救援了浪貓
當過兩次送養人,有興趣可去翻我以前文章
我雖送養過,但我不是專業中途
當然我以下發言不代表所有中途立場
—————————
常常批評送養人很刁難、毛很多的
其實自己可以做個實驗
你找幾張可愛的貓照片,上網發文要送養
開始陸陸續續奇怪的人就來了
我當初在批踢踢和臉書都發過送養文
前後一共約30人聯繫過
「我家小孩吵著要養貓,就先給我養看看吧」
「我想養貓,但是我不希望我家被弄髒」
「他懂得用貓砂嗎,我不希望貓砂沾到地板」
「貓乖不乖?會打破杯子嗎?會咬線嗎?」
「舊貓走失了,想再領養一隻來替補」
「我沒經驗,先讓我試,不適合我再還給你」
「我套房很小,很忙常不在,但我想試試看」
「剛開店,想訓練一隻公關貓來招攬生意」
「想在工寮養一隻,給附近的浪浪找玩伴」
諸如上述的傻眼的問題每天都依依回答
送養時不是只有我問問題
也更希望對方多問我一些問題,好彼此了解
我也不會公開設定什麼養貓條件
因為在我想法是,先談過再來決定是否要送出
但更多的領養人給人的態度是:
我沒什麼可給你問的,也沒有問題想問你
要送養就趕快把貓交出來!少囉嗦!
這種完全不想溝通就想直接要求交貓的
大概佔了來訊者的一半
(批踢踢來訊的都很有禮貌,但臉書上來訊者一堆牛鬼蛇神,有半夜打來說要來接貓走的
)
不想給問太多可以理解
租屋還是自宅?大樓、透天、還是套房?
獨居還是共住?是否有舊貓?
上述這些基本的問題都不給問的也不少
被拒絕而灰心的不是只有領養方而已
而且送養方也是常常被拒絕的
當遇到很理想的詢問者,很希望能送給對方
對方考慮後幾天,又拒絕也是常有的事情
這些也是默默吞下來繼續找
畢竟送貓也是要雙方心肝情願才行
有人說中途會利用領養人的愛心來賺錢
我只覺得,這個說法真是頭殼壞去
照顧貓、看獸醫、到處發文、接洽來訊者
這些都非常勞心勞力、又花時間
如果付出這些,只是為了騙你幾千萬把元
我倒覺得去超商打工還更輕鬆咧
送養上隻貓時
也曾有過三、四個人主動私訊我
希望能匯些錢給我來幫助那隻貓咪
我也是都拒絕了
我甚至都跟來訊有意願領養的人說
如果願意收養,前期的醫療或飲食花費
我可以一起負擔,如有困難我也都可以幫忙
後來貓咪好不容易真的送出了
原本我自己也是很反對協議書的人
但基於曾有過負面經驗,還是決定要有個依據
我立出的協議書如下
只有五條規則,對方也是很爽快的就簽了
https://i.imgur.com/WCRRLsh.jpg
我後來自己認識的幾個有兼做中途的朋友
基本上作法也都是和我一樣
所以對於批踢踢現在把中途都說成斂財的瘋子
我覺得這說法不是很公平
我想建議有心要認養貓狗的朋友
可以多看看貓板或社團
很多的送養者,都是意外的撈到浪貓
因無法照料才出來發文尋求認養的
盡量跟這種送養人領養,這種規矩會比較少
對方通常只是想盡快送貓而已
至於那隻貓口眾多,專門在做中途的愛媽
也是大家最容易遇到爭議的類型
這種規矩很多,能否接受看個人
我自己曾有認識專業愛媽中途,毛的確比較多
但沒必要把所有送養人都當成混蛋帶風向
畢竟上述這種人不可能壟斷全部的領養管道
最後我比較有疑問的是
上篇的原作者自述
因為被中途拒絕過
所以買了英短和有基因缺陷爭議的曼赤肯
我無法理解兩者的關聯在哪裡
為何被中途拒絕過,就要去買品種貓?
這個邏輯到底是?
如果只是想要養品種貓,建議就大方承認
想買品種貓是個人的自由,這沒什麼
但沒必要歸咎都是因為中途
導致逼你不得不去買貓
真的沒有必要…
--
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