朋友的男友虐貓,該如何幫助? - 貓
By Blanche
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不好意思手機排版見諒。
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幾年前朋友和一個經濟狀況不錯的男生交往,交往不久後同居男生就叫我朋友把工作辭了
,在家好好休息,他照顧她。
男生家裡養了一隻貓,朋友也養了一隻貓,朋友發現,他男友會有捉弄貓(捏貓、讓貓處
於驚嚇、讓他的成貓餓肚子)的情形,且認為貓只是畜生,不需要認真撫養。
他們時常因為貓而吵架,朋友的貓開始睡貓砂盆(可能時常處於驚嚇、貓砂盆的氣味是能
讓他最安心的位置了)不到半年朋友回家發現貓已經斷氣,醫生是說心肌梗塞,但朋友認
為是男友把貓嚇死的(奈何找不到證據),爭執不斷下我建議朋友把他男友的貓送養給真
的能保護貓的人,否則可能有會再有憾事發生。
雖然爭執不斷,但最後也順利把貓送出了。
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這邊是一年後。
最近和朋友出去她才鬆口,半年前他們在家附近搶到一隻奶貓,母貓時常回來找,但男生
死也不放回原位,朋友只能堅持送養,但他男友吵著要養,最後朋友還是放棄說服他男友
,男友把奶貓當玩具似的餵食他過期氣泡水,讓奶貓無節制的進食,最後貓還是死了,死
後
還直接丟進垃圾桶。
朋友後續還說他們同時也領養了兩隻貓,他男友一隻她一隻,兩人互不干涉,當初男生答
應好不會再有虐貓情形,結果虐貓的情形比之前更嚴重。
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我跟朋友說過,她沒有阻止這個行為就是加害者,會虐待動物還指望以後會怎麼對待她?
但她表示她無能為力,每次阻止只會爭吵,經濟上都是男生提供的,她不想再處理這種事
。
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實在不知道該怎麼對需要幫助的貓伸出援手,也不知道怎麼改變朋友這種殘酷的觀念,想
問愛貓的版友們若是遇到相同的事件會如何處理呢?謝謝各位回覆。
若有任何問題我再補充。
補充1.
當時得知情況時我的反應很大,跟朋友直接起了口角,朋友試著安撫我,看得出她未來是
不會跟我說這種事,勸分過,但是女生極度排斥。
補充2.
朋友男友心情不好也會有踢貓,摔貓的行為,過度餵食為奶貓,餓肚子為成貓。
補充3.
朋友的貓原本不睡砂盆,快過世前幾週才開始睡砂盆,見到男生也會非常緊張的躲起來,
原本是隻很親人的貓。
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幾年前朋友和一個經濟狀況不錯的男生交往,交往不久後同居男生就叫我朋友把工作辭了
,在家好好休息,他照顧她。
男生家裡養了一隻貓,朋友也養了一隻貓,朋友發現,他男友會有捉弄貓(捏貓、讓貓處
於驚嚇、讓他的成貓餓肚子)的情形,且認為貓只是畜生,不需要認真撫養。
他們時常因為貓而吵架,朋友的貓開始睡貓砂盆(可能時常處於驚嚇、貓砂盆的氣味是能
讓他最安心的位置了)不到半年朋友回家發現貓已經斷氣,醫生是說心肌梗塞,但朋友認
為是男友把貓嚇死的(奈何找不到證據),爭執不斷下我建議朋友把他男友的貓送養給真
的能保護貓的人,否則可能有會再有憾事發生。
雖然爭執不斷,但最後也順利把貓送出了。
-
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這邊是一年後。
最近和朋友出去她才鬆口,半年前他們在家附近搶到一隻奶貓,母貓時常回來找,但男生
死也不放回原位,朋友只能堅持送養,但他男友吵著要養,最後朋友還是放棄說服他男友
,男友把奶貓當玩具似的餵食他過期氣泡水,讓奶貓無節制的進食,最後貓還是死了,死
後
還直接丟進垃圾桶。
朋友後續還說他們同時也領養了兩隻貓,他男友一隻她一隻,兩人互不干涉,當初男生答
應好不會再有虐貓情形,結果虐貓的情形比之前更嚴重。
-
我跟朋友說過,她沒有阻止這個行為就是加害者,會虐待動物還指望以後會怎麼對待她?
但她表示她無能為力,每次阻止只會爭吵,經濟上都是男生提供的,她不想再處理這種事
。
-
實在不知道該怎麼對需要幫助的貓伸出援手,也不知道怎麼改變朋友這種殘酷的觀念,想
問愛貓的版友們若是遇到相同的事件會如何處理呢?謝謝各位回覆。
若有任何問題我再補充。
補充1.
當時得知情況時我的反應很大,跟朋友直接起了口角,朋友試著安撫我,看得出她未來是
不會跟我說這種事,勸分過,但是女生極度排斥。
補充2.
朋友男友心情不好也會有踢貓,摔貓的行為,過度餵食為奶貓,餓肚子為成貓。
補充3.
朋友的貓原本不睡砂盆,快過世前幾週才開始睡砂盆,見到男生也會非常緊張的躲起來,
原本是隻很親人的貓。
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