社團根本是澆熄領養人熱情的地方 - 貓
By Odelette
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最近家裡的貓過世 心情很不好
因為有夢到他會再回來
所以一直在找有沒有有緣的貓
因此加入了一些領養的社團 沒想到卻是惡夢的開始
首先社團的中途幾乎都開出一大堆異常嚴苛的條件
我認同門窗防護這件事
但不能叫我每個陽台、每個窗戶都要全弄吧?
我家有的窗戶根本不開
弄了一個陽台專門給貓曬太陽看風景用的
要通風的窗戶也都有防護
竟然也可以被說「心存僥倖」打槍
還有要求全濕食、拒大賣場飼料、要餵高級品牌飼料 等
雖然家的貓原本是全濕食沒錯
但我覺得中途限制這些根本莫名其妙
也許人家一開始經濟能力有限或者還沒相處沒那麼愛
奴才越當越稱職自己就會調整了
搞不懂用「能給貓吃多好」來決定認養人什麼概念
最扯的是一堆中途高高在上講話咄咄逼人
開始像徵信社一樣質問式的身家調查
家裡幾坪?結婚生子沒?月收入?在哪上班?
工作時間?一個月花多少錢在貓身上?
平均大概被問不下20個問題,而且都是以質問而非互動的口氣
甚至還有要求要核對身份證,拿身份證跟貓拍照 留身份證影本 等
也有8-9成要求要家訪
呃 很想問 請問您哪位啊 中途也不是有公信力送養機構
這些個資都給你對認養人的保障是什麼
也遇過要求要負擔貓在他那的醫藥費的
像是救援的錢、結紮預防針的錢。
然後都是拿那種手開收據
也有人把貓當商品一樣
展示一個禮拜想來看都來看,再慢慢從幾十組人挑滿意的開始上面一連串的質問
好像領養人的時間都不是時間一樣
不是應該要先透過對談找個幾組覺得不錯的再來見面互動看看?
最爛的是有的中途不知道到底有想送養嗎
很多都傳完訊息已讀不回,或者丟出幾十題問卷叫你寫
浪費時間寫好之後再次已讀不回
或者說你在寫的時候我送掉了
哈囉?我才寫了1個多小時
如果你在這期間內就能送掉代表早有人選吧?
那幹嘛浪費我時間!?!
奇怪的是那些已讀不回的中途最後還會過陣子又把貓po上網徵認養人
但之前文章幾十個人推已私 難道都沒合適的?
真心覺得
雖然要預防遇到虐貓或沒責任感的
但這樣莫名的標準真的會澆熄原本想領養的人的熱情
導致更少人願意領養
可養可不養的人大概就覺得麻煩算了
有閒錢沒非得認養不可的大概就去買了
到底是我遇到的中途都很怪還是社團生態本就如此
原來想養貓這麼難?QQ
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