社團根本是澆熄領養人熱情的地方 - 貓
By David
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我認為認養貓就跟找工作一樣沒錯,但公司不是要找最好的員工,而是要找最適合的員工
你一間傳產塗水泥的找台大博士也沒比較好,找有經驗、有體力的員工才是最佳解
出了社會工作一陣子、換了幾份工作才知道,好的公司不會擺高姿態挑選員工,
而是要互相體諒、尊重員工,彼此擺在平等的地位才能做的健康長久。
現在中途最大的問題是總認為自己要找最好的,有貓最大,領養人隨我挑
認養人也是共犯,看到貓貓好可愛,什麼委屈都能吞下去,導致慣中途胃口越養越大,
就跟養公主養王子一樣,價值觀都會慢慢地跟社會脫鉤,最後惹上一身臭名聲還不自覺。
我覺得最大的問題是:
1. 中途對領養人標準往往自己無法達到,雙標自助餐。
我看過太多中途經濟狀況不是很好,卻要求領養人有優渥的收入。
美其名是幫貓咪找個好歸宿,實際上就是做著超出自己能力的事情,
再把成本往別人身上轉嫁。沒有能力的愛心只是偽善,懂?
2. 不公平的認養切結書。
目前我在網路上看過N種不同版本的切結書,
沒有一個是要留中途的身分證影本,卻要領養人留資料。
沒有一個是要公佈中途的身家收入,卻要領養人的年收入資料。
沒有一個是可以開放領養人參觀自己的中途之家,卻要家訪領養人。
沒有一個是如果領養人領走貓後,因為中途照顧疏失造成貓咪日後殘疾的罰款,
處罰的一律是領養人。
憑什麼這樣不公平的條約,還義正嚴詞的叫人簽下去? 請把人當人看,好嗎?
我知道有些中途很熱心的願意跟領養人公開這些資訊,但是白紙黑字寫成條約就不一樣了
加上版上不時有看到中途跟領養人的紛爭,甚至有鬧上法院的。
你想想,當你的仇人有你的一切資料,這不是很恐怖的事情?
有心的,想怎麼搞你就能怎麼搞。雖然這種事情很少發生,但總是防人之心不可無,
不用為了一隻貓把自己出賣成這種地步。
認養同意書是加快彼此條件媒合的工具,不應該是送養者予取予求的單方面條約。
(我知道還是有很多願意視實際情況彈性調整的天使中途,感謝你們的努力)
最後還是想說一句,
不管你養什麼寵物,最重要的還是人,人快樂,寵物才會跟著快樂。
對人來說,長命百歲不一定是什麼好事,快快樂樂的過完這一生才是好事。
我相信對任何動物來說都是一樣的。
找到一個愛貓的人最重要,其他都是其次。
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你一間傳產塗水泥的找台大博士也沒比較好,找有經驗、有體力的員工才是最佳解
出了社會工作一陣子、換了幾份工作才知道,好的公司不會擺高姿態挑選員工,
而是要互相體諒、尊重員工,彼此擺在平等的地位才能做的健康長久。
現在中途最大的問題是總認為自己要找最好的,有貓最大,領養人隨我挑
認養人也是共犯,看到貓貓好可愛,什麼委屈都能吞下去,導致慣中途胃口越養越大,
就跟養公主養王子一樣,價值觀都會慢慢地跟社會脫鉤,最後惹上一身臭名聲還不自覺。
我覺得最大的問題是:
1. 中途對領養人標準往往自己無法達到,雙標自助餐。
我看過太多中途經濟狀況不是很好,卻要求領養人有優渥的收入。
美其名是幫貓咪找個好歸宿,實際上就是做著超出自己能力的事情,
再把成本往別人身上轉嫁。沒有能力的愛心只是偽善,懂?
2. 不公平的認養切結書。
目前我在網路上看過N種不同版本的切結書,
沒有一個是要留中途的身分證影本,卻要領養人留資料。
沒有一個是要公佈中途的身家收入,卻要領養人的年收入資料。
沒有一個是可以開放領養人參觀自己的中途之家,卻要家訪領養人。
沒有一個是如果領養人領走貓後,因為中途照顧疏失造成貓咪日後殘疾的罰款,
處罰的一律是領養人。
憑什麼這樣不公平的條約,還義正嚴詞的叫人簽下去? 請把人當人看,好嗎?
我知道有些中途很熱心的願意跟領養人公開這些資訊,但是白紙黑字寫成條約就不一樣了
加上版上不時有看到中途跟領養人的紛爭,甚至有鬧上法院的。
你想想,當你的仇人有你的一切資料,這不是很恐怖的事情?
有心的,想怎麼搞你就能怎麼搞。雖然這種事情很少發生,但總是防人之心不可無,
不用為了一隻貓把自己出賣成這種地步。
認養同意書是加快彼此條件媒合的工具,不應該是送養者予取予求的單方面條約。
(我知道還是有很多願意視實際情況彈性調整的天使中途,感謝你們的努力)
最後還是想說一句,
不管你養什麼寵物,最重要的還是人,人快樂,寵物才會跟著快樂。
對人來說,長命百歲不一定是什麼好事,快快樂樂的過完這一生才是好事。
我相信對任何動物來說都是一樣的。
找到一個愛貓的人最重要,其他都是其次。
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