第一次的認養經驗 - 貓

By Belly
at 2015-10-09T17:40
at 2015-10-09T17:40
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手機Po文,若有排版不佳請見諒...
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前一天約好時間送養,當天早上反悔?有這樣的卦嗎?
事情是這樣的....
最近這一兩個星期接觸了一名認養人,想認養她有在fb認養社團po送養的一隻小黑貓「寶
妹」
中間主要溝通都是我男友,因爲他飼養過貓,比我有經驗。
後來約了時間去對方家看貓,當天看完也約了家訪時間。在家訪我們的前一天跟後一天分
別也去其他人家做家訪,最後她選擇了我們。
然後開始把家中的兩扇窗做好防護網(我連續三天下班後到生活百貨買網片)
http://i.imgur.com/jssMoMA.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/Y93xFoB.jpg
也整理出給貓咪活動的空間,舉凡貓便盆、外出提籠、飼料桶、指甲剪、梳毛工具...基
本配備都已經購買完畢,總花費大概三千多。
老實說我覺得這些都是應該的,沒關係。
把準備好的東西都拍下照片給對方過目,對方也還指導我們擺設問題。其實很多東西她有
點過度干涉,但我們也願意盡力配合。
約好了明天晚上要送貓來....
在這之前她在自己fb po文說恭喜寶妹找到新家,謝謝爸爸媽媽看到牠的優點、然後又幫
寶妹洗澡po照片,看到下面一堆人留言祝賀,她也一一回覆說等待是值得的......等。
然後今天早上,突然反悔了!!
我先從我男友口中得知非常震驚跟憤怒,然後我立馬私訊對方...
(這是完整的對話內容,若裁切不佳請見諒...)
http://i.imgur.com/gMQYji5.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/Qc6CMyA.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/YUhnkCx.jpg
其實我最後的結論就是,是她自己突然不捨不想送養。因為她一直無法給一個正當的理由
讓人信服。
她們是中途,寶妹是他們自己在市場誘捕養了半年的貓,中間有一些中途都是別人請他們
幫忙,然後也比寶妹快送養。我男友跟我說自己養的一定是有感情。
說真的如果妳跟我承認不捨我就罷了,偏偏說不是只是有很多事情在思考?
我們都準備好了,也期待著今天可以看到寶妹,妳卻讓我們如此失望難過與憤怒?
說一堆五四三的理由,還跟我男友說有認養期,若只要一方覺得不妥都可改變。
重點是我們根本連養都還沒養!哪來的認養期?連認養同意書都還沒簽!妳再跟我說什麼
鬼話??
總之這一段認養的經驗真的很差,覺得她反覆又自私。
之後我請男友跟她說請她不要再po寶妹的送養文,不要讓真心喜歡寶妹的人失望。
寶妹讓我覺得牠是一隻有靈性的黑貓,第二次跟牠相處我有試著叫牠的名字,然後牠就一
直盯著我看很久,最後還用鼻子碰我的鼻子,當下心情很溫暖,覺得牠就是我想疼愛牠一
輩子的孩子。
只可惜...唉。
補上她跟我男友的對話:
http://i.imgur.com/GxOPQka.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/nvzSrAo.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/IOOmUhn.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/XKrCBit.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/uUOy0c3.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/d48m2za.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/AIb3iWQ.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/mJ9tArT.jpg
再補上今早對方反悔的對話:
http://i.imgur.com/zUft5Ea.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/xfDBQkc.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/LHkv3k0.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/qgIOUg1.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/2epuCG9.jpg
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前一天約好時間送養,當天早上反悔?有這樣的卦嗎?
事情是這樣的....
最近這一兩個星期接觸了一名認養人,想認養她有在fb認養社團po送養的一隻小黑貓「寶
妹」
中間主要溝通都是我男友,因爲他飼養過貓,比我有經驗。
後來約了時間去對方家看貓,當天看完也約了家訪時間。在家訪我們的前一天跟後一天分
別也去其他人家做家訪,最後她選擇了我們。
然後開始把家中的兩扇窗做好防護網(我連續三天下班後到生活百貨買網片)
http://i.imgur.com/jssMoMA.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/Y93xFoB.jpg
也整理出給貓咪活動的空間,舉凡貓便盆、外出提籠、飼料桶、指甲剪、梳毛工具...基
本配備都已經購買完畢,總花費大概三千多。
老實說我覺得這些都是應該的,沒關係。
把準備好的東西都拍下照片給對方過目,對方也還指導我們擺設問題。其實很多東西她有
點過度干涉,但我們也願意盡力配合。
約好了明天晚上要送貓來....
在這之前她在自己fb po文說恭喜寶妹找到新家,謝謝爸爸媽媽看到牠的優點、然後又幫
寶妹洗澡po照片,看到下面一堆人留言祝賀,她也一一回覆說等待是值得的......等。
然後今天早上,突然反悔了!!
我先從我男友口中得知非常震驚跟憤怒,然後我立馬私訊對方...
(這是完整的對話內容,若裁切不佳請見諒...)
http://i.imgur.com/gMQYji5.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/Qc6CMyA.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/YUhnkCx.jpg
其實我最後的結論就是,是她自己突然不捨不想送養。因為她一直無法給一個正當的理由
讓人信服。
她們是中途,寶妹是他們自己在市場誘捕養了半年的貓,中間有一些中途都是別人請他們
幫忙,然後也比寶妹快送養。我男友跟我說自己養的一定是有感情。
說真的如果妳跟我承認不捨我就罷了,偏偏說不是只是有很多事情在思考?
我們都準備好了,也期待著今天可以看到寶妹,妳卻讓我們如此失望難過與憤怒?
說一堆五四三的理由,還跟我男友說有認養期,若只要一方覺得不妥都可改變。
重點是我們根本連養都還沒養!哪來的認養期?連認養同意書都還沒簽!妳再跟我說什麼
鬼話??
總之這一段認養的經驗真的很差,覺得她反覆又自私。
之後我請男友跟她說請她不要再po寶妹的送養文,不要讓真心喜歡寶妹的人失望。
寶妹讓我覺得牠是一隻有靈性的黑貓,第二次跟牠相處我有試著叫牠的名字,然後牠就一
直盯著我看很久,最後還用鼻子碰我的鼻子,當下心情很溫暖,覺得牠就是我想疼愛牠一
輩子的孩子。
只可惜...唉。
補上她跟我男友的對話:
http://i.imgur.com/GxOPQka.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/nvzSrAo.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/IOOmUhn.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/XKrCBit.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/uUOy0c3.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/d48m2za.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/AIb3iWQ.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/mJ9tArT.jpg
再補上今早對方反悔的對話:
http://i.imgur.com/zUft5Ea.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/xfDBQkc.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/LHkv3k0.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/qgIOUg1.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/2epuCG9.jpg
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