一直看推文好累喔... - 天竺鼠
By Donna
at 2008-09-05T19:27
at 2008-09-05T19:27
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繼續更新... (大家可以開個聊天室了啦~ XD)
我知道這樣並不能重建現場
畢竟有些時候是因為A說了什麼所以B才會這麼說
不管怎樣
至少大家的想法能夠比較完整地被看到啦!
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推 rainforest10:而小孩想養的動機,由於小孩若沒有大人的付出是無法養 09/05 18:51
→ rainforest10:因為我們大家是擔心小孩子不像我們能夠去思考養育動 09/05 18:53
→ rainforest10:物的麻煩性,我們大家擔心的是小孩子是否是三分鐘熱度 09/05 18:53
→ rainforest10:沒錯!就是教育啊!所以我們才問大人願意陪同小孩嗎? 09/05 18:54
推 rainforest10:我們沒有質疑家長的教育方式啊.但如果家長對天竺鼠的 09/05 19:00
→ rainforest10:概念是-一隻老鼠,他就以一般養育方式照顧,丟飼料讓他 09/05 19:01
→ rainforest10:若家長也喜歡天竺鼠必定就會去多閱讀或是詢問以了解 09/05 19:02
推 rainforest10:所以你是說@@一開始就不應該說出孩子不養,怎麼辦? 09/05 19:05
推 rainforest10:不對,這句話是對四歲小孩的不信任,而不是徵對教育 09/05 19:09
推 rainforest10:因為四歲的孩子想法單純,對於小動物的認知也不夠,當 09/05 19:12
→ rainforest10:遇到問題可能不懂如何解決,24歲的人會去尋找解決之道 09/05 19:12
→ rainforest10:對啊!!!所以才問家長願意陪同小孩呀 XDDD 09/05 19:18
→ rainforest10:所以家長要願意學習這些呀~科科~然後一起陪小孩養~ 09/05 19:19
→ Cid:所以才需要教育啊:p 請見前面推文中的一段youtube影片...:> 09/05 18:52
→ Cid:雨林大: 其實這種推論也是沒有根據的, 當初我養天天養了一兩個 09/05 18:53
→ Cid:月時, 也曾因滿滿的大便萌生不想養的想法 XD 09/05 18:54
→ Cid:我以為無論何種時候, 去質疑對方家長對孩子的教育方式都是不好 09/05 18:55
→ Cid:的. 09/05 18:55
推 Cid:唔..我以為問對方"如果小孩子不想養了怎麼辦"時就帶有此意味. 09/05 19:01
→ Cid:ya, 那麼何不讓我們給予鼓勵與支持, 靜靜地看他們將來的表現? 09/05 19:03
→ Cid::) 09/05 19:03
→ Cid:原po也是被轉錄文章到這裡的, 在開始養之前, 我想不太會出現在 09/05 19:05
→ Cid:此po文吧..:p 09/05 19:06
→ Cid:to雨林大:對, 因為1)這關係到家長教育孩子的方式 2)同樣的問題 09/05 19:06
→ Cid:也可以問將來想認養的人:若你以後不想養了怎辦? 無論是哪種情 09/05 19:07
→ Cid:況, 都隱約地帶著一種不尊重的態度... 09/05 19:07
→ Cid:又不是只有爸爸小孩會犯這種錯誤...:p 09/05 19:08
→ Cid:嗯, 為什麼要不信任4歲小孩呢? 我不認為24歲成人會更值得信任. 09/05 19:10
→ Cid:cle大:那就不能不承認: 這在某種程度上是一種成見. 對吧?.. 09/05 19:11
推 Cid:cle大, 多看看正面的例子吧(前面那段youtube影片) :p 09/05 19:14
→ Cid:雨林大:對小孩來說, 這就是教育過程了. 09/05 19:16
→ Cid:話說我小時候好想養寵物啊, 但我爸媽都不給我養..難得有父母主 09/05 19:17
→ Cid:動說要陪小孩一起養寵物, 我們真的該鼓勵啊..XD 09/05 19:17
→ Cid:話說原文不就說明了父母會陪同小孩養寵物的意願了?..XD 09/05 19:21
推 cleliza:看文字不一定看得出語氣... 09/05 19:02
推 cleliza:除非我看到原po有任何正面的回應或補充 否則我很難支持他 09/05 19:04
→ cleliza:耶 要是我以後再看到差不多狀況的文章 我還是會提醒個幾 09/05 19:05
→ cleliza:句,因為我在兔板看過有個爸爸要送養小孩子不想繼續養的兔 09/05 19:06
→ cleliza:子,而且放任一對兔子同籠且懷孕到第二次... 09/05 19:06
→ cleliza:認養板那篇有人請他來這裡看推文了 就...看原po造化了... 09/05 19:07
推 cleliza:是的,但是我的所見所聞會影響我的判斷,如果我都沒看過 09/05 19:10
→ cleliza:這類負面例子,我也就不會有疑問了 09/05 19:10
→ cleliza:可以這麼說,但是這成見很難被打破,因為這跟我小時候養寵 09/05 19:12
→ cleliza:物的經歷吻合,都是負面例子...orz 09/05 19:12
→ cleliza:例子有正面有負面,但我還是會提醒XD 09/05 19:16
→ cleliza:我也會想養耶 可是現在回頭看 發現觀念都超不正確的 09/05 19:18
→ cleliza:都是小孩要求 爸媽幫養 然後最後不是養死就是棄養= = 09/05 19:18
→ cleliza:給我家養過的寵物們...真是對不起了,我年紀小不懂事又蠢 09/05 19:19
我知道這樣並不能重建現場
畢竟有些時候是因為A說了什麼所以B才會這麼說
不管怎樣
至少大家的想法能夠比較完整地被看到啦!
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